return if possible (RIP)

life...
we cant predict whats going to happen the next minute...

but

we make plans for the future in a jiffy..
right?
and when life takes its own turn..
we cant help but adjust with the situation...
life teaches us that whatever we plan can only be executed if fate is with us...
like it is rightly said...

so we can only do whats in our hands...
that is...

so that even if fate takes its own turn...
we have memories of people or moments that have left us...

DEtermination...

it is very easy to say

"A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work."

but how do we find that determination within us???

is there a set formula?

no there isn't...

the only thing that leads to determination is the need,the urge,the desire to achieve what you want to...

if the desire is enough 

then determination will find its way 

SO...

ups and downs...

life is full of ups and downs...
but we always think ours is full of downs...
right?
i know..
i think so too...
BUT..
"STOP FOR A MINUTE"
and
"THINK"
is it only you that is going through a hard time?
what is the problem all about?
NO JOB?
RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS?
FAMILY ISSUE?
FINANCIAL PROBLEM?
WORK POLITICS?
and the list goes on and on and on....
but..
what is the solution?
is there any?
"YES"
there is...
"TIME and ACTION"
it takes time to heals away all the pain,hurt and issues...
BUT 
it also takes effort so go ahead and make the change..

times change...

change is a part of life...
it is very easy to say this but is accepting it that easy???
it is for the good..
but it takes time for us to understand it...
but what do we do in the process of that change????
try adapting with it?
adjusting?
rebelling?
to each their own...
but can we still do anything about it?
can we stop it from happening?
I DON'T THINK SO....
So the conclusion is....

ENJOY IT !

beginnings are always tough..

i have always thought of writing my own blog...
but always left the thought behind thinking that i couldn't..
eventually i've gathered the strength to start off...
and i am sure all of you out there are trying to begin doing something or the other...
BUT
what is stopping you???
the difficulties that you see ahead of what you are trying to get into...
Right???
BUT
for once just let go..
go ahead and just do it...
so what if u will fail...
atleast u will have the satisfaction that you tried...
give your 100%...
and rest..
Leave it to god he'll help you get through it...
Just try and let me know if it worked...
i'll be waiting for your responses